Swinging for the first time?

What happens in a swinger party depends on each couple , each party and each night.If a couple is not feeling like to party, they won't enjoy a lot the event no matter how good it could be.So you need to have the best mood for your first swinger party.

It doesn't matter how you got invited to the party , a couple can go into the lifestyle and belive strongly they are the weird couple.

Newbies in the lifestyle must realize what other swinger couples want.Do they swap ?, Do they like guys or girls ?, etc. At any swinger party not only one swinger couple will be wondering these things. Some couples will be only near the swingers they already know trying to stay in safe ground. But remeber , swingers go to parties to meet swingers. This without doubt means that being "in the dark" is always a part of the lifestyle. A party where all swinger couples have already met one another any time before wouldn't be funny.

New swingers are always welcomed , in fact , new swingers are of high interest for more experienced swingers. This is an advantage but remember to admit you are a newbie .The majority of swingers are always willing to help new people. If any doubt , watch. Try to guess which rules are there in the house, you need to see how do experienced swingers move since they know exactly what they want and how to get it. Staying low and taking things slow have neverbeen frowned but remember swinger lifestyle is for having fun so don't stay too low or go too slow.

Some rules for your first time in a swinger party

Both partners must agree what to do and what don't .

Throw jealousy , discomfort and all those useless emotions away.Relationship must be the center of all decisions .

Be polite , be nice people , always smile , say "no, thank you", say "please" , don't try to push others to things they don't want , swinging lifestyle is about enjoying , so you have the right to choose also. Old-fashioned standards work greatly.

Let having fun be the final and ultimate goal of your swinging experiences.

Go prepared just in case you get to score so carry your own sex goodies and/or stuff.

Swingers are all adults so try to handle this lifestyle in a adult way.